You MUST identify as the woman he's in love with.
What does this mean in practical terms?
It means that you must cease replaying and recounting the narrative which says that
he doesn't love you.
Words are POWERFUL.
You can't keep complaining about how he doesn't love you...and expect him to be in love with you.
You can't keep playing the victim and expect better results.
As long as you believe he's your villain...you are perpetuating the very opposite of what you'd like to experience.
The human ego LOVES to look for examples of how he doesn't love or failed to love you.
The human ego REFUSES to practice forgiveness.
The human ego is ADDICTED TO holding onto the identity of REJECT.
At some point, you have to remove your ego from the driver's seat and place her in the passenger seat.
Place your Higher Knowing in the driver's seat.
And assign your ego the task of affirming and celebrating any and all 'evidence' that your non-monogamous does in fact love you very much.
Beloved, you chose this man for your spiritual growth.
That means: releasing your REJECTION COMPLEX and replacing it with it
SUPREME FEMININE CONFIDENCE.
REPEAT THESE WORDS OUT LOUD UNTIL THERE IS NO FURTHER
EMOTIONAL CHARGE LEFT
"I HEREBY RELEASE MYSELF FROM THE FALSE AND
VERY TOXIC NARRATIVE WHICH SAYS THAT
___insert his full name____ DOES NOT LOVE ME!
THIS IS NOT TRUTH!
I KNOW IN MY HEART THAT
___insert his full name____LOVES ME VERY, VERY MUCH!"
Cry it out, Beloved.
Let go of your resentment, doubt, unforgiveness, unworthiness, rage, grief...
Let it go.
Let that man LOVE you.
Reclaim your SUPREME FEMININE CONFIDENCE.
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