Updated: Jan 16
So, the situation is...
He's not in love with you.
And you want him to be.
There's nothing wrong with wanting him to be in love with you.
However, to begin to shift your particular reality with this exact man...
You'll need to start by answering these
5 soul-searching questions.
So get out your journal and write your unfiltered responses.
Describe in detail the version of yourself that you believe this specific man would actually be in love with. How does she think, speak, act, move, sound, smell, etc.? How does she treat him? How does she regard him? How does she regard herself? And, most importantly, are you willing to make those changes to yourself?
How do you behave differently when you KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that he's in love with you? How does knowing that he's in love with you make you feel?
What scares you about having him fall in love with you?
How specifically does your relationship change when he's in love with you?
Will you continue to love him even if he NEVER falls in love with you? Is having him fall in love with you a dealbreaker?